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Herbert
Edward Vermillion, age 95, formerly of Wappinger’s Falls, died at the
home of his daughter, Louisa Coburn, following a brief illness.
Born August 4, 1908, in Competition, MO, he was the eldest son of the
late Omar and Edith Wright Vermillion. A graduate of Competition High
School, 1926, he attended Chillicothe Business College and became a
telegrapher /agent for the Frisco Railroad in OK, KS, and MO. He
received the A.A. degree from Iberia Junior College, the B.S. in
chemistry from Monmouth College, IL, and the Ph.D. in chemistry from
Duke University. While at Duke he was an Angier Biddle Duke Fellow.
From 1939 to 1941 he was assistant professor of chemistry at Wofford
College. In 1941 he joined the Texaco Research Center in Beacon, NY
conducting research on fuels and chemicals, eventually becoming head of
the fuels research laboratory. During World War II he was involved in
the development of aviation and rocket fuels. In the postwar years he
researched special processes for fuel production from petroleum, coal, shales and tar sands. Much of his work during the 1950s and 1960s was
classified contract work for the U.S. armed forces or other federal
agencies. From 1970 to 1973 he supervised the development of unleaded
gasoline for Texaco. He was the holder of 15 U. S. patents covering
products and processes related to automotive fuel production.
He was a member of Phi Beta Kappa, Sigma Xi, the American Rocket
Society, American Institute of Chemists, and the American Chemical
Society.
He retired from Texaco in 1973 after 32 years of service and moved to
Shelby, NC, where he enjoyed gardening, golfing, and fly fishing. He was
a member of the Shelby Presbyterian Church.
He was preceded in death by his wife of 59 years, Catherine Trawick
Vermillion. He is survived by a son and daughter-in-law, John E. and
Carole A. Vermillion, of St. Paul, MN; a daughter and son-in-law, Louisa
and Oakley H. Coburn of Spartanburg, SC; three grandchildren – Brian A.
Vermillion of San Diego, CA, Jessica E. Vermillion of St. Paul, MN, and
Nathaniel A. T. Coburn, of Spartanburg, SC.; a brother, Edwin
Vermillion, of Riverton, WO; and a sister, Juanita V. Montgomery of Blue
Springs, MO.
Graveside Services were held at 4:30 p.m. in Greenlawn Memorial Gardens,
Spartanburg, conducted by the Rev. Dr. Clay H. Turner.
Simple Gifts
Those of us who ever tried to give my father a gift – birthday,
Christmas, or otherwise – knew how difficult this task was. Daddy never
seemed to need anything. “How would you like a new shirt, Dad?” “Don’t
need a shirt. Gotta shirt. Got more shirts than I can wear in a
lifetime.” Sometimes we nailed this gift business, though. There was the
time my brother filled an entire cardboard shipping box with loose golf
tees – thousands of them in all colors. He was delighted.
Once I gave him a wool hat that he seemingly liked – at least he wore it
until it fell apart. Well-chosen books almost always pleased him. In the
mid 1960s, when Tolkien’s trilogy first appeared in the U.S., Dad read a
review of the books in the New York Times. “Do you know about these?” he
asked me. Well, of course I did, and I gave him The Hobbit and then The
Lord of the Rings. He read them, he truly enjoyed them. My scientific,
logical, pragmatic, and always practical father took to wearing a lapel
pin that read “Frodo Lives!” He would wake at 5 in the morning to
squeeze in an hour’s reading before work. Not content to read alone, he
would wake my mother and read aloud to her, performances which included
all of the Elvish songs sung to some tune only Dad now would know.
One of the books I gave to my father in the late 80’s was
Harry Middleton’s The Earth is Enough. The subtitle of the book is
“growing up in a world of fly fishing, trout, and old men.” The book
resonated with both of us. For Dad it brought back memories of his youth
in the Ozarks of Missouri, a way of life he had known and experienced.
For me, it brought to the forefront of my awareness a longing for a
simpler life, and the beginnings of my efforts to consciously make our
home a haven for our family. To quote from the foreword of my edition,
“the book is ...about love for all things that matter...a profound ode
to the earth and to mankind, governed by respect, gentleness, and
humor.” Dad’s life was really all about a love for all things that
matter – his wife Catherine, his children, his grandchildren, and his
brothers and sisters and nieces and nephews; the land and what he could
coax from its depths, the flash of blue on a bluebird’s wing, the
wondrous sight of a flock of cedar waxwings.
My last conversation with my father occurred in the early hours of
Monday morning. Suddenly he opened his eyes, and I knew he wanted to say
something to me. “I want you to listen to me,” he said. “This is
important. I want you to listen. I don’t need another thing. You
understand? Not another thing.”
“I understand,” I said. And I repeated back to him “You don’t need
another thing.” Then I said what I had needed to say all that night.
“You have been a wonderful father.”
“Thank you,” he said, “I tried to be.”
Indeed you were, Dad. You were.
– Louisa Vermillion Coburn
Dad
My father was on this earth from 1908 to 2003. 95 years. For a long
time, I have been thinking that his life was like the course of a long
river. Small streams and creeks to start, feeding into larger streams
broken by rapids, flowing down and converging into a wider easy going
river, ultimately emptying into sea and disappearing.
To know my father, you had to see him at engaged in various outside
pursuits along this journey.
Always there was the gardening Dad. Wherever he lived, you could find
him out there growing something. My sister and I recall the endless
variety of stuff, from the sour cherries to the grapes, corn, peas,
tomatoes, you name it. Always there was the fishing Dad, more about that
later.
In the 50’s and 60’s, there was the beagle Dad. Raising beagles and
chasing them over the hills as they tracked rabbits. Trust me, beagles
do howl at the moon.
Then there was the golfing Dad, playing all over North and South
Carolina during the 70’s and 80’s. As usual, Dad took up the sport with
a vengeance; witness his hole in one trophy from 1978.
But I think that his heart was captured most by fly-fishing. He always
was interested in fishing, but took up fly-fishing in earnest from the
60’s on. Fly-fishing is a religion to many, as you know.
So I conclude with a passage loosely taken from “A River Runs Through
It”. And I can see Dad having these thoughts on his last true
fly-fishing trip to the West, when he was at least 83.
“Now of course, all those I loved when I was young are dead, but I still
reach out to them. I am too old to be much of a fisherman, and I usually
fish alone, although some friends think I shouldn’t. I often do not
start fishing until the cool of the evening. Then in the half-light, all
existence fades to a being with my soul and memories and the sounds of
the river and a four-count rhythm and the hope that a fish will rise.
Eventually all things merge into one, and a river runs through it. The
river was cut by the world’s great flood and runs over rocks from the
basement of time. On some of the rocks are timeless raindrops. Under the
rocks are the words, and some of the words are theirs.
I am haunted by the waters.”
So let’s think of Dad out there now, fly fishing in the evening, hoping
for the big one, with my mother sitting back hoping he won’t fall in
this time.
– John Vermillion

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